Friday, October 14, 2016

Six ways to make people like you

Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.
1)"Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."
2)"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people  interested in you"
3)"Ask questions  to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."

Rule 2: Smile
1)"Actions Speak louder than words, and a smile says, "i like yo. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
2)"You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."
3)"It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a good business, and is the countersign (witness or indication of friends."

Rule 3: Remember Names
1)"A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2)"If you dont remember names, your headed for trouble."

Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
1) "If you aspire to be good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."
2) "Remember that the man you are talking to is s hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems."

Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.
1)"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most.

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.
"The desire to be important in the deepest urge in human nature," (John Dewey)

Final reflection: I think ways to make people is being sincere being nice plays a role in making people like you like the first post says become genuinely interested in people smile more. If you want people to like you become honest and a social person be open minded about things if you dont agree with something look at it from their perspective being able to relate to people having something in common also plays a role in making people like you. Nowadays we are not taught how to make people like us so we act out on emotion we are taught only to like certain people when we are young like we are being programmed. We are taught that everyone hates Chris and everyone loves Raymond. These roles do play a key factor but you cant make people like they choose to like you just be yourself and you will be fine people respect people who are real and true to themselves. I will myself use these roles in my life im glad there is someone in this school who can teach us.

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