10 keys to Personal Power

Key 1: Clarity 

"Have vision. Determine what you want to be, do or have in life. Have a sense of direction and know where you're going. If you do not have clear specific goals in life you are doomed forever to work for others who do.'

You have to choose what you want to do in your life dont let no one decide who you are going to be dont let yourself be discourage what other people think of you if you dont have a goal if your young you have lots of time to what you are going to be in life if you are older you have so times running out make sure you have a big goal to work towards set smaller goals to work towards your smaller goals.

Key 2: Competence

"If you commit to excellence, opportunities will always come your way. The harder you work,the better you get."

If you apply yourself enough there will be lots of opportunities for you along the way and nothing can stop you 

Character and personality

Character and personality

In this video i learned the principles for highly effective people he talked about the tip of the ice burg being personality and the rest of the ice burg which is the biggest part character personality is what you show people character is how people know you. Character is a big part of who you are from character you see the good triats such as integrity, honesty, and personality he also said these are common principles from all the books he read people only see the outside of you they dont see the person you really are the japanese believe there are 3 sides of you one you show to the world one you show to your friends and one you yourself only know

7 habits of effective people

7 habits of being proactive

Habit 1: Be Proactive 
"Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all the other habits and and that's why it comes first. It says, "I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I,m responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver's seat of my destiny, not just a passenger,"
What i think about habit one it is important to be proactive because you are in control of your life
Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind 
"control your own destiny or someone else will."(Jack Welch)
"When you know where you intend to end up, you know where you are now."
(Covey
Habit 4:Think Win-Win
"Think win-win or no deal"
What i think this quote means is when you think you can win you can win no matter what anyone tells you because whatever you do you already know it you just need someone to guide you through it and it will fall in place. Thinking negative thoughts will only trap you and lead you to a worse situation that you are already in. Winning is not about being the better person or the toughest its about courage and consideration balancing those two out is the essence of maturity.

Freelance (My Thoughts)

My Thoughts

I just want to talk about whats going on in the world today i don't usually talk about how i feel i just want to talk about society. Society is manipulated yeah a little bold right i'm just going to get right to the point when we are young we are taught only to obey and what do your supposed to do no questions asked so when we are growing up the government tells anything we dont question them we just watch everything the news tells us we think that it is true that's what what i mean by being programmed not being able to think for yourself believing everything you see and hear. That's how they control you they use religion to make you feel guilty and believe everything the bible tells you are taught not to question god  the bible has been rewritten and passed down many time what makes you think thay have rewritten it so they can control you i do believe there is a higher being but i dont believe in what all the other people believe. Churches they want money if they say money is the root to all evil they sure do want it dont they.

How to remember someones name

• How to remember peoples names
• Commit to remembering their names
• Make a conscious decision to remember someones name
• Repeat it in your head
• Use it in a sentence occasionally  
• Write it down if necessary 
• Use it immediately 

Six ways to make people like you

Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.
1)"Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."
2)"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people  interested in you"
3)"Ask questions  to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."

Rule 2: Smile
1)"Actions Speak louder than words, and a smile says, "i like yo. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
2)"You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."
3)"It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a good business, and is the countersign (witness or indication of friends."

Rule 3: Remember Names
1)"A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2)"If you dont remember names, your headed for trouble."

Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
1) "If you aspire to be good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."
2) "Remember that the man you are talking to is s hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems."

Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.
1)"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most.

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.
"The desire to be important in the deepest urge in human nature," (John Dewey)

Final reflection: I think ways to make people is being sincere being nice plays a role in making people like you like the first post says become genuinely interested in people smile more. If you want people to like you become honest and a social person be open minded about things if you dont agree with something look at it from their perspective being able to relate to people having something in common also plays a role in making people like you. Nowadays we are not taught how to make people like us so we act out on emotion we are taught only to like certain people when we are young like we are being programmed. We are taught that everyone hates Chris and everyone loves Raymond. These roles do play a key factor but you cant make people like they choose to like you just be yourself and you will be fine people respect people who are real and true to themselves. I will myself use these roles in my life im glad there is someone in this school who can teach us.

Free lance blog #2

America

In today's free lance journal i would like to express myself and exercise my 1st amendment of freedom of speech. i would like to talk about america and how it is the best country in the world especially with all the peacefulness thats going on today. The debate is all BS they are going to tare this country apart but hey lets vote for the president that is least destructive remember presidents are elected selected i dont believe our votes count in my honest opinion i think Donald Trump is going to win we all know he has hidden agendas in mind america was never great the only time is was great is when Abraham Lincoln or John f. Kennedy was alive but you know what happened to them they got assassinated i wonder why what makes Donald think he can make this country great again he cant control what this police state is doing now.